Wednesday, March 28, 2012

The Statistics - WRONG!!!!

Every couple of years, fertility clinics are required to report on the number of cases they see in order to compile statistics regarding this issue. The latest statistics as reported by the American Pregnancy Association are that 6,000,000 women in America deal with infertility. And that 2,000,000 married couples are infertile. WRONG!! The most recent statistics according to the CDC (Center of Disease Control and Prevention) are from 2009. That's the first reason I say WRONG!! Our latest stats are from 2009. That's 3 years ago! The second reason I say that is wrong is because those statistics are based ONLY on those that had the courage to even SEE a fertility specialist. What about the women that haven't gotten to that point yet? What about the women that are scared and never intend to see a specialist? What about the people that give up before trying? What about the women that don't even try to have children but without knowing could be infertile? That's a lot of people! Oh, one more. What about the single women who feel shame in seeking help alone so never go? There are so many groups of people to consider that aren't in those stats. This only furthers my argument. Its more common than you think!!! I want to encourage women to stand up and say ME TOO!!! Now, please understand that I know, after battling for 9 years to conceive, that this is a private and touchy matter. I am by no means saying wear a banner saying "I'M INFERTILE". Although it would be nice to have an alliance in this, I understand. But what I do mean by saying "me too" is seek help. Don't just say this is the way it is. Go see a specialist. Seek advice. Seek encouragement. That's why Fruit of the Womb is here. To be a source of encouragement and guidance. Am I an expert? No. Am I a professional in this area? No. But since I have been down this long road, I do know something! And I am willing to share that information with you privately and/or publicly. My hopes are to build a network of people. Medical professionals, counselors, and most importantly REAL PEOPLE that have had this struggle and made it through and those that are still in the midst of their test. If you want to join me in this fight, please email me at fruitofthewomb2012@gmail.com. Also, if there is a topic you would like me to discuss, please email me and I will do the research and report on it! Be blessed and stay encouraged.

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